Unconditional love doesn’t mean that a person has to tolerate mistreatment of any kind or stand by to witness a loved one destroy themselves. No – unconditional love means that in spite of come-what-may, I’m going to love you anyway. I’m going to reserve that place in my heart – that holy spot that only you can fill. I’m not going to try to push or prod another into that spot, because that would be the epitome of ignorance or stupidity, or both. No – there is only one hole that you can fill. The hole is just made that way, as you are. Each to their own…holes…in my heart….in their own time.
The Holey One